What my body showed me this month
January gave me a lot of information about my body — despite what could have looked like a setback.
If you are new, this is where I share the ups and downs of my own self-care journey to give you a picture of how the make self-care simple approach works in real life.
Making tracking easier for 2026
I decided to track my self-care using 4-week cycles starting on a Monday and always ending on a Sunday. In theory this will be much easier to use than the normal calendar months, that start and finish on different days of the week and have different number of days each month. But let’s see how I get on.
This meant that my January self-care update for 2026 only had 3 weeks of tracking so that I could start this new system on cycle 2.
Turns out that 3 weeks gave me plenty of tracking data to reflect on!
What the numbers showed about my self-care
For this stage of my journey living with MCAS, at first glance, the numbers looked like a setback. Fatigue and brain fog showed up on 60% of days. Immune reactions on nearly half. Stress over a third.

I also noticed another number that stood out in my tracking.

I had chosen nervous system support as my new self-care challenge for January, the area of self-care that in theory was where my focus should have been. But according to the numbers I only completed this challenge 31% of the time. What did this mean?
Tracking provides information — but it’s never the whole picture.
Numbers tell you what is happening. Reflection tells you why.
What was happening around me – Environment

So, what was my body trying to tell me this month?
(I explain how to get started with my process in the free toolkit)
What I noticed was that my immune response (MCAS) had been triggered despite maintaining my diet and supplements.
Reflecting on the past 3 weeks I realised that I had been in contact with various cold and flu bugs. As is common with MCAS, I had not experienced the ‘normal’ symptoms, but I had an increase in the number of days I experienced Histamine reactions.
Winter viral colds almost definitely contributed to my higher reactions and fatigue this month. And this observation fit the picture my tracking provided, as my usual support had not changed.
Life behind the numbers
Well-being and self-care include responding to daily life.
For January the highlights included:
- Family/Parenting – sudden unexpected situations that required more processing than usual. While externally I appeared to take it in my stride, my body was still processing (and responding) beneath the surface (Life issue/stress 36%)
- Home repairs finished – completing last month’s marathon of continual home repairs brought relief but again my body was probably still processing and recovering
- Friendships – were a wonderful source of support this month.
- Meaningful creativity – through my writing and insights is a constant source of joy
The ups and downs of normal daily life impact our body and well-being as much as remedies, diet and self-care practices.
Your body is designed to respond to everything.
January had felt long because of a series of low-level stressors, never-ending home repairs from last month, followed by a month dealing with family and viral stress.
The Quiet Insight I Almost Missed

It was time to make self-care decisions for next month, February (or cycle 2), what did my body need?
And again, I returned to nervous system support and relaxation.
I had assumed my body would welcome this much needed support
Yet as I reflected over the month, I realised that I had felt resistance from my body each time I thought about the nervous system challenge I had carefully put together.
And then it clicked.
I was over-facing my body, asking too much too soon.
If you’ve ever felt resistance to a new routine you wanted to do, this might sound familiar.
Support still asks the body to respond or change. And that is additional load.
Even a very supportive new self-care practice, requires effort, focus and time to learn, and when added on top of recovery and ongoing stress, it can be too much.
My body did not have the capacity to respond to more – even if it was supportive.
This is often the missing piece for women with fragile energy — we assume support should feel easy, but the body still has to respond.
But what I could offer my body was a practice made up of micro almost too easy to-do nervous system exercises. I knew that being a ‘practical’ body-led practice, the best results would come from repeating over time – even if it was only a few minutes a day.
My self-care plan for February (cycle 2)
So February isn’t about doing more. It’s about adjusting to my body and life at this time. This is my self-care focus for the next 4 weeks (cycle 2) based on what my body needs and my life requires.
- Maintain my ‘clean’ MCAS/SIBO dietary plan – some months I explore and test if certain foods still trigger my immune system but this coming month I would keep it clean.
- Maintain my current supplements and remedies
- Maintain my existing self-care practices such as water, digestive support and movement
- Introduce micro nervous system practices – and see how my body responds
January self-care Takeaway
Even the most perfect self-care practice will fail, if the body doesn’t have enough capacity to take on anymore.
You can’t add support to an overloaded system.
If your body has been resisting new routines lately, it may not be laziness — it may be overload.
This is especially common when energy is unpredictable or recovery is incomplete.
What did your self-care reveal in January?























































































